What a Calorie Is
A calorie is a unit of energy, and how many you take in versus burn decides whether you gain, lose, or hold steady.
Eat less than you burn, you lose. Eat more than you burn, you gain. Stored calories are body fat. That's the whole rule, plain and simple.
Where Your Calories Go
Your TDEE breaks into four parts, and only one of them is really up to you.
TDEE stands for Total Daily Energy Expenditure. It's the total number of calories you burn in a day. You'll also hear it called your maintenance calories, because eating that number is what holds your weight steady. Same thing, two names.
BMR, Basal Metabolic Rate
Calories burned just existing. Breathing, thinking, pumping blood. This is the biggest slice by far, and it isn't something you can move much day to day. More muscle nudges it up over time, but not overnight.
TEF, Thermic Effect of Food
Calories burned digesting what you eat. It shifts slightly with more protein, since protein takes more effort to break down. Realistically, it's not worth chasing.
NEAT, Non-Exercise Activity Thermogenesis
Basic movement outside of a workout. Walking, fidgeting, moving through your day. This is the piece you actually control, and it's why 10,000 steps is the target during the two week rule.
EAT, Exercise Activity Thermogenesis
Time spent training. A small piece of your total burn, smaller than most people assume.
Eating vs Drinking Calories
A drink and a meal can cost the same calories, but only one of these makes you feel full.
Liquid calories count the same as food calories, but they don't do the same job. The problem isn't only that a drink is less filling in the moment. It's that you don't eat any less later to make up for it. A 300 calorie soda gets added to your day rather than subtracted from your next meal, so your total goes up either way.
Most drinks also carry no protein and no fiber, which are the two things that actually make you feel full. That's the difference.
This matters more once you're in a deficit, since every calorie needs to work harder for you.
The Macros page goes deeper on protein and fiber. Rule of thumb: don't drink any liquid calories. Water, diet soda, and zero sugar soda are all fine. BUT DRINK YOUR WATER. Macros
How to Calculate Your Calorie Target
Here's how to calculate your own numbers.
Step 1: Find your BMR
Quick conversion: pounds divided by 2.2 = kg. Inches x 2.54 = cm.
Step 2: Find your TDEE
Multiply your BMR by an activity number:
| Level | Description | Multiplier |
|---|---|---|
| Sedentary | little to no exercise | x 1.2 |
| Lightly active | light exercise 1 to 3 days a week | x 1.375 |
| Moderately active | moderate exercise 3 to 5 days a week | x 1.55 |
| Very active | hard exercise 6 to 7 days a week | x 1.725 |
Step 3: Apply your deficit
We'll talk about where to start your deficit on the Two Week Rule page, but usually I subtract 300 to 500 calories from your TDEE. Subtract that number and that's your daily target. This is what it means when I say your target sits a few hundred calories under your maintenance. Two Week Rule
Worked example
Weight: 165 lbs (75 kg). Height: 5'5" (165 cm). Age: 35. Activity: lightly active.
| BMR = (10 x 75) + (6.25 x 165) - (5 x 35) - 161 | 1,445 |
| TDEE = 1,445 x 1.375 | 1,987 |
| Daily target with a 400 calorie deficit = 1,587, round to | 1,600 |
Note on rounding: round to the nearest 50. The formula is an estimate, not a measurement, and three-digit precision implies an accuracy it doesn't have.
The Bottom Line
Think of your calories like a budget. Every day your body earns a set number of calories, your TDEE. Everything you eat is a withdrawal against that number. Spend exactly what you earned and your weight holds steady. Spend less than you earned and the shortfall gets pulled from savings, which is stored body fat. Spend more than you earned and the surplus gets deposited into savings.
Normally, saving money is the goal. Here it's flipped. Progress means pulling from savings, not adding to it. Once that clicks, everything above is just the mechanics of making it happen.
Every calorie in that budget goes somewhere. Protein, carbs, fat, and alcohol are the categories you're spending it on, and each one does something different once it lands. The Macros page picks up from here.
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